Cunnilingus: how to make it?

 

It is often classed in the preliminary category as a simple caress. Cunnilingus is a sexual practice in its own right, which involves stimulating the female sex with the mouth. How is it, and what are golden rules to achieve pleasure during cunnilingus?

What is cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus is an oral sex practice, which involves stimulating the woman’s sexual organs with her tongue and lips. It can be practised by men and women and is considered one of the “classic” practices that are part of the preliminaries. Cunnilingus involves stroking, kissing, licking, sucking or nicking the entire area around the pubis: the clitoris, lips, vagina and anus of the one who receives it. It can be practised with the tongue only or alternating the caresses with the fingers. The idea is to rotate the different movements until reaching orgasm by stimulating the clitoris and vagina.

How to make cunnilingus?

Every woman is different, so there is no pre-established manual for successful cunnilingus. The important thing is to listen to your partner and feel if it is reactive to your stimulation. Cunnilingus is a practice related to the pleasure of women, which aims to excite and give him sensations. Know that the entire area between the thighs and the lower belly is erogenous.

So you can alternate your caresses between different parts of this area: pubis, clitoris, vagina, anus, etc. The ideal is nevertheless, at the height of excitement, to concentrate your caresses at the level of the clitoris: this is where the pleasure will be maximum. Do not hesitate, in addition to your language, to use your fingers to caress the area around it. Finally, do not forget that the clitoris, the organ of the pleasure of the woman, surrounds the vaginal walls. By penetrating the vagina, either with your fingers or your tongue, you accentuate the stimulation of the clitoris.

The best positions to practice cunni

The most classic position is that of the missionary: the woman is lying, and his or her partner is lying too, at the level of her pubis. This position is comfortable for both people and allows them to stay for a while. However, there are other positions to practice cunnilingus. The position called “69”, where the two people are head to tail, allows performing oral sex and cunnilingus, or two cunnilingus at the same time. One is lying on his back, and the other is positioned above in the opposite direction, or both are lying on their sides. This very sensual position allows both partners to experience pleasure simultaneously, whether in a heterosexual or homosexual couple. Cunnilingus can also be practised in other positions: the woman can be standing, or sitting on a chair or at the edge of a bed, for example.

The golden rules of the cunni

The female sex is a sensitive area. Take care not to hurt your partner, especially with your teeth. Nibbling or gently titillating the lips can be very pleasant for those who receive cunnilingus, but can also be very painful if done too hard. Similarly, if the practice lasts a certain, the area can dry slightly. Pay attention that your partner is always lubricated, mainly thanks to your saliva. Also, keep in mind that everything resides in the pace and variation of caresses. Do not be monotonous, and try to modulate the speed of your movements, paying attention to your partner’s reactions. Finally, remember that once the orgasm reaches, the clitoris becomes very sensitive, and the slightest touch can be painful.

Attention to STIs and other diseases

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Cunnilingus, like other sexual practices, is not without danger. Although you think of it less often, always keep in mind that some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are transmitted through the sexual fluids (women’s juice), and therefore during oral sex. Although there is virtually no risk of HIV transmission during oral sex, it is recommended to avoid this practice during the menstrual period, as blood is a vector of the virus. The risk of transmission is however high for infections such as hepatitis B, chlamydia, syphilis or genital herpes, which is transmitted very easily in contact with the mucous membranes. The only solution is the use of a dental dam or a cut male condom if you want to protect yourself against these STIs during cunnilingus.

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